I have to begin by saying this was truly an interesting
experiment. I decided to use two different people for each experiment. My
friend Ashley only spoke English, and my friend Anna spoke to me in Armenian. I wanted to see if there was any difference in
either experiment when the language was different. For the first part of the
experiment the other participants were able to use language, whereas I was only
allowed to use body language and non-verbal vocalizations. I began with Ashley.
She spoke to me for fifteen minutes. Although I could not respond to her with
words, I was able to keep her talking with just the hand gestures, smiles, and
nods. Neither of us found this exercise to be difficult. I tried the same
experiment with Anna in Armenian. We also had a lengthy conversation with each other.
I didn’t find it hard to engage in the conversation, however I could tell there
was times she was looking for me to react (with words) and I couldn’t. This
made me think of my grandparents. They came to this country about thirteen
years ago. I remember they felt so stupid because they couldn’t speak English.
They had gotten lost one time by getting on the wrong bus, and they said they
had a very difficult time getting home. They couldn’t communicate with anybody,
and all they got were blank stares when they asked for directions. It did
however encourage them to learn English at a much faster pace than all their
friends.
In the second part of the experiment again my friends Ashley
and Anna were the participants. In this part of the project I was able to speak
to my participants, however I was not allowed any hand or face gestures or head
movements of any kind. This was particularly interesting and difficult.
Although the conversation should be easier with two people actually using their
voices to communicate, it was not. Ashley had a much easier time speaking to me
in English. She said my single tone was annoying. She didn’t like that I didn’t
smile at her happy news. All in all it was not that bad. Now the conversation
in Armenian was a whole other story. Anna was so frustrated with me for being
monotone. She kept saying “say something”, what she didn’t realize was that I was
saying a lot. I just couldn’t use my facial expressions and hand gestures as I normally
would in our conversations. I actually found this to be amusing.
In order for me to understand Anna’s frustration she made me
go through another conversation where she spoke to me in monotone and with no
gestures. I have to say, it was pretty annoying. From this experiment I learned
just how important language is to communicate. I was surprised to learn how
much I depend on gestures and facial expressions during conversations.